Procrastination – now there’s a word with which I am all too familiar. The uncanny ability to put tasks off for as long as possible, or in some cases, so long that the task becomes obsolete. I have been known in years past to delay projects, chores, items on my to do list, and so on, until the last second and occasionally until well past the deadline. And sadly, it’s not a trait of which I am at all proud. It’s a real struggle, one which I honestly have to consciously work at to overcome. And, from what I’ve learned, is one of the most irrational character flaws to possess.
In high school and college I was the queen of procrastination. Most assignments back then required a student to read, answer a few questions, write a paper, or study for an exam. It rarely mattered to me what the task was, I pretty much always delayed it until the last minute. Then I would stay up all night, or at least until the wee hours of the morning, and complete it. Fortunately I nearly always received A’s on my work, but unfortunately, that only reinforced my bad habit.
Then I became a mom. Babies become toddlers who become school children who become teenagers. Procrastination does not go over well at all with these people. It doesn’t work to put off the feeding a screaming infant, or to wait until the next day to change a fully soiled diaper. I could not delay taking care of my children, and I still don’t.
Shortly after I had my second child, I helped found and then ran a private school. Once again, it was not in the school’s best interest, or mine, to put off the many and essential duties associated with the job. I quickly learned to make a list and one by one scour my way through each item on a daily basis.
Okay, so now I stay home, I’m writing a novel and my days are pretty relaxed. Procrastination has reared its nasty head. Most of the items I tend to put off these days are general household chores – ironing, vacuuming, weeding the garden, and often times making a phone call. As I contemplated my tendency to put off some of these items, I decided to do an experiment. It was simple. I figured I would time how long it actually takes me to do one of these deeds. I chose emptying the dishwasher and refilling it with any dishes that had been used while it was running. The task took me all of five minutes! Wow – and I put this off why?
The funny thing about procrastination, at least for me, is the reality that delaying the chore is actually much worse than simply getting it done. I know the jobs I need to accomplish in a given day, or week, or whatever. And the more I put them off, the heavier they begin to weigh on me. But if I simply make my mind up to run through each task, as my experiment proved, they tend to get done rather quickly. And the end result? I feel better and lighter, and more often than not, I have more time to do other things.
An irrational character flaw? Indeed. It makes absolutely no sense to put things off. So I will continue to write my list, and make a concerted effort to get off my rear end and do the deeds that need to get done. In fact, now that I think about it, I’ve got a number of chores on my list for today. I guess I’d better stop dragging my feet, and get a move on them.